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16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence, 2007 - Index of articles
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Days of Activism: Women with disabilities and gender based violence
Gladys Charowa, Disabled Women Support Organisation (DWSO)
November 27, 2007
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General
overview of disability
The issue of
disability in Zimbabwe continues to be in the hands of Ministries
of Public Service Labour and Social Welfare and Health and Child
Welfare - a clear indication that as Zimbabweans, we still
subscribe to the welfare approach to disability issues and yet we
need to embrace the human rights based approach to disability. The
human rights based approach to disability places special obligations
on the part of government to remove physical and social barriers
that prevent or hamper the full integration of people with disabilities
in society. It ensures that they are accorded the same rights and
opportunities as any of their member of society. The human rights-based
approach recognises that disability concerns span into the whole
range of societal activity from accessibility, communication, education,
vocational guidance and training, employment, culture and religion,
sport and recreation, housing, transport, traffic and road safety,
economic security, legal protection, training of personnel, family
life and personal integrity, national communication and coordination
and International cooperation.
As women with
disabilities, we would like to comment the Ministry of Women's
Affairs, Gender and Community Development and all civil society
who were involved in coming up with the Domestic Violence Bill.
Well done, however we would like to point out that most of women
with disabilities are not aware of it, as they were never consulted.
At the same time the Bill is not user friendly to the blind people
as it is not translated into Braille and there is no sign language
for the hearing impaired who cannot read and write to understand
this important document.
Testimonies
Violence against
people living with disability especially women, has been identified
as not only more extensive amongst the general population; but also
more diverse in nature than for society in general. The nature of
violence against women with disabilities incorporates an almost
endless list of injustices and maltreatment, including unnecessary
institutionalisation, denial of control over their bodies, lack
of financial control, chemical restraint, unwanted sterilisation,
medical exploitation humiliation and harassment, denial of social
contact, employment and community participation as well as physical
mental and sexual abuse just to mention a few.
Evidence from
women with disabilities suggests that violence against them differ
in significant ways to violence against other women. There are factors
that make women with disabilities both more likely to be targets
of violence and at the same time less likely to receive assistance
or services if they experience domestic violence. A case in point
is of Faith; she sustained a spinal cord injury in August 2004.
She was rehabilitated and returned to her marital house in February
2005. Her husband started having an affair with her next-door neighbour.
One day the mother-in-law came to Faith and told her that her husband
has a new wife who is not disabled. Therefore she must leave the
bedroom. Faith resisted and the mother-in-law assisted the new couple
to remove Faith from the bed. She is now sleeping on the floor in
the same bedroom and she is forced to watch the two in action. She
has tried to report the matter to her relatives who are encouraging
her to stay in the marriage, as they would not be in a position
to look after her and her children. Also the children are being
denied the opportunity to go to school, as they would look after
their mother when learned. The first child dropped out of school
when she was in Form one. This is a double violence of the mother
and children.
Women who are
dependent on caregivers may be more vulnerable to violence than
women who do not depend on caregivers. Many women with disabilities
are in positions where they rely on caregivers to provide a range
of needs - from basic needs such as eating and dressing -
to more complex ones such as transportation. The control the caregiver
has on the lives of women with disabilities can be misused and often
the women do not have a choice. This is particularly the case when
the caregiver is a spouse/partner. Tendai a woman who is visual
impaired has this to say, "My husband, whom I have four children
with is ill treating me, when he wants to have sex with me he inserts
a banana or a mealie cob and ask me to respond as we are having
sex. In some cases he urinates in my mouth telling me that he is
giving me cokes drink". If I complain or refuse, he bits me
up with fists and objects. She showed us some bruises all over her
body. We advised her to report the matter to the police. This police
officer has negative attitudes towards disability and said this
to the visual impaired woman, "Your husband has done you a
favour, as no man would ordinarily be attracted to an ugly looking
woman like you. You must be thankful to him as he is giving you
shelter over your head.
A woman who
is unable to speak may be seen by a perpetrator as an "easier"
target for abuse. People with speech impairment are being abused
in silence. They are sexual abused and they are unable to report
their cases or to share their ordeal with other members of society
due to language barriers.
Many women with
disabilities are not believed when they disclose their experiences
of violence. People in positions of power such as judges, doctors,
police, caregivers, spouses and family may deny that the woman's
evidence is credible. Many women with disabilities have been denied
education regarding sex and contraception, because these matters
are considered irrelevant to their lives. They have been discouraged
from childbearing, forced to undergo abortions or sterilisation.
Parental or caregivers or medical intolerance of the developing
sexuality of young women has let to sterilisation without informed
consent. Reasons given for carrying out sterilisation of women with
disabilities include:
- Management
of menstruation;
- Heavy bleeding
and cramps;
- Difficult
social behaviour or emotional reactions to bleeding;
- Preventing
pregnancy; and
- Reducing
the need for education and information about fertility.
Women with disabilities
can often be in situation where other people exercise control and
power over their lives. This power imbalance increases the risk
of women with disabilities as targets of violence. Many women with
disabilities are acutely aware of their own powerlessness -
they may be more likely to fear harm due to the impact of their
disability particularly any physical, psychological or emotional
dependency. A case in point is Mary, a wheelchair user who had this
to say: 'I was married to my husband 22 years ago but I never
enjoyed the marriage. Whenever he comes home from drinking he bits
me up for no apparent reason. He always uses abusive words on me
about my disability. I am only staying in this marriage because
I do not have anywhere to go and I am not financially sound to look
after my three children and myself. At the same time my parents
encourage me not to leave this man. During the past two years I
have been ill and I went for HIV testing and was diagnosed HIV positive.
Up to date I have not yet disclosed my status to anyone, as I am
afraid of him and the society at large. During my life I have never
had any sex with any other man beside himself. I have lived a misery
life and I am going to die a bitter person".
* Gladys Charowa
is a single mother who has been living with disability since December
2001 after a car accident that left her with spinal cord injury.
She is the founder member and Executive Director of Disabled Women
Support Organisation (DWSO) an organisation that focuses on women
and girls with disabilities. She is also an Independent Consultant
in gender, nutrition and HIV/AIDS, poverty and disability and has
written a number of articles on various issues concerning disability
issues. Email: gcharowa@comone.co.zw
or dwso.hre@healthnet.org.zw
Visit the Disabled
Women Support Organisation fact
sheet
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