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Male MP should extend apology to all Zimbabwean women
Women's Coalition
June 22, 2006

The Women’s Coalition is deeply concerned about the statement ,"single female MP’s should get married", made by the Honourable MP of Mabvuku to female members of Parliament as highlighted in the Daily Mirror of 17 June 2006.

At a time when women are working hard and tirelessly to be in decision-making positions they are being forced back to domestication, which in the past has achieved very little for them. Analysed from a satirical, symbolic and ironic point of view this and other statements coming from male policy makers have serious implications for them in the near future.

At the moment we are grappling with the reality that there is no gender equality in all socio economic spheres of life and this one is but another big hurdle in modern Zimbabwe. Women in and outside Parliament are not married for various reasons chief among them are, loss of husbands through death, domestic violence, childhood rape, death, childhood rape, choice for careerism and activism and fear of risk of contracting HIV and AIDS in marriages since statistics show that 60% of married women in Zimbabwe are HIV positive. There are also a number of men in and outside parliament not married for the same reasons and gender sensitive female MPs have never interrogated them in public for their marital status because being married or single is all about choices. When a legislator directs that single women MPs get married in a respectable House like Parliament one wonders what he wants to achieve for them. The women and men who voted them into power are fully aware that the MPs are single and in no way desperate for any partnerships but for political activism and careerism.

The male MP has already withdrawn his statement but not his negative attitude towards women. This he has to do urgently and publicly and the Women’s Coalition is organising for him to meet with women activists to find out what the motive behind the statement is and was. The physical, sexual, verbal abuse perpetrated against female MPs or any woman in Zimbabwe regardless of political affiliation is abuse to all Zimbabwean women.

The Women’s Coalition feels strongly that female MPs need support in and outside Parliament as issues they are bringing to Parliament on rape, domestic violence and gender based violence affect the basic unit of any society which is the family. Male MP’s have families and they stand to directly benefit from the Domestic Violence Bill, proposed child sexual offences bill and any legislation protecting women and girls from gender based violence. The laws protecting women and girls in Zimbabwe equally protects their own wives, girl friends, daughters, aunts and grandmothers.

Zimbabwe like the rest of the world is moving towards the 21st century and attainment of the Millenium Development Goal number three on Gender Equality needs commitment from policy makers. The Women’s Coalition hopes male MPs do something about verbal abuse of women in parliament as this has serious effects on the women’s self esteem. If male MPs do not openly and publicly condemn the MP’s statement, women in Zimbabwe will assume that they are not gender sensitive and therefore ensure the next parliament is exactly the opposite of the current one in terms of gender composition. Women in Zimbabwe have endured gender stereotyping, physical, sexual and emotional abuse for a quite a long time and this coming century they will have none of it.

The Women’s Coalition is sincerely grateful to the Daily Mirror for covering this story and for demonstrating that the paper is fully committed to women’s empowerment through a follow up commentary in the Daily Mirror of 20 June 2006 . Such support to the women’s cause a lot of times go unnoticed. We hope you continue with your efforts to promote gender equality and equity. The paper has of late named and shamed rapists, polygamists, wife murderers and all those who abuse women and girls. This has gone a long way in promoting women’s rights and minimised deaths, suicides, diseases and frustration of women in key decision making positions in particular and all women in general. Women’s Coalition hopes every newspaper joins in gender activism and report on women and girls issues in an objective and gender sensitive manner to minimise vulnerability of women and girls to abuse.

Finally we hope to meet with the male MP so that he further clarifies to women why marriage on the part of female MPs should be mandatory.

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