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The
position of lesbian and bisexual women
Fadzai Muparutsa, Gays and Lesbians of Zimbabwe (GALZ)
Extracted from Galzette, January 2008
Since 1995,
discrimination against homosexuals in Zimbabwe has received widespread
coverage and attention but specific forms of exclusion experienced
by lesbians and bisexual women are often obscured by talk of the
general oppression facing both sexes. Although homosexual men (including
transgender men) are spurned by society, they still maintain the
privileges that automatically accrue to them as biological males.
By contrast, lesbian and bisexual women suffer multiple forms of
oppression, some of which relate to their sexuality but most of
which relate to the general position of women in society.
It is not possible
to generalize about Zimbabwean culture but, on the whole, Zimbabweans
of both sexes are expected to follow the predetermined path of marriage
and the production of children. For both lesbians and gay men, whose
relationships are not recognized, this often poses a serious barrier
to freedom of choice. Nevertheless, the position for men is made
significantly easier: men enjoy much greater access to public space
and, both before and after marriage, are able to move freely in
society and socialize. This advantage is automatically extended
to gay and bisexual men simply because of their biological sex.
With freedom of movement, gay men are at an advantage when it comes
to identifying and establishing relationships with other gay men
and seeking support without the knowledge of or interference from
their families and heterosexual friends. They have better access
to conducive environments where their sexuality is affirmed and
where they can take control over the processes of coming to terms
with their sexuality and coming out.
Women, on the
other hand, are generally protected behind the chastity belt of
the home and most are not at liberty to mix with whom they please
and establish unsupervised relationships. This makes it more difficult
for lesbian and bisexual women to meet with others like themselves
whilst keeping their sexuality hidden from their families. Those
who do come out are either extremely brave and highly determined
or economically independent and belonging to those few families
that are more tolerant of sexual difference.
Gay men enjoy
greater opportunities to work and be economically independent: a
large number of women rely exclusively on their families to survive.
Women who do generate income often have their money controlled by
men. This impacts more seriously on a married lesbian or bisexual
woman than on a married gay or bisexual man. With control of the
purse strings, a gay man is in a better position to survive the
ordeal of being outed to his family; should a lesbian woman's
sexuality be discovered, she may lose her family, including her
children, and be returned to her rural home.
Understandably,
lesbian and bisexual women are more visible in urban areas where
they stand a better chance of enjoying greater economic independence
and access to public space. In the rural areas lesbian and bisexual
women remain firmly silenced. With no support network and no information,
these women are far more likely to internalise their oppression
and believe that they should conform to cultural norms of heterosexual
marriage and the bearing of children. Although these women may outwardly
concur with their position, they are still forced to accept a lifestyle,
which runs entirely contrary to their emotional and psychological
needs.
Although spaces
for lesbians and gay men remain limited, men are once again at an
advantage. Whilst gay men are generally more accepting of lesbian
and bisexual women as social equals and do not view women as sex
objects, many still carry with them unconscious prejudices of heterosexual
socialisation. For example, gay men can often hide their sexual
relations with women, lesbian women may fall pregnant which has
led to accusations of some women being 'false lesbians',
traitors to the cause or women trying to cash in. Even in cases
where gay men are known to have children, this is considered a lesser
crime simply because children are seen as appendages to women and
not to men. Bisexual men who self-identify as gay are accepted and
tolerated; bisexual women who identify as lesbians are viewed with
suspicion.
Lesbian women
with children are often turned into apologists for choices that
they make concerning their rights to bear children. Discussions
around sexual rights relating to the right to bodily integrity,
the right to choose one's sexual identity, the right to all
safe and consensual sexual activity with other adults (even if this
seemingly conflicts with one's sexual identity) and the right
to bear children are still very much in their infancy within the
African lesbian and gay discourse.
Another potential
source of sanctuary for lesbian and bisexual women is the women's
movement but, in Zimbabwe, this is deeply divided by conflicting
ideologies. Many organisations are linked to government and have
entrenched themselves in nationalist thinking around feudalism,
patriarchy and hierarchy which are viewed by them as authenticating
and reclaiming African culture. There exists no room within this
framework for tolerating difference and it promotes the exclusion
of those who are viewed as such. This invented African culture is
highly oppressive to women and prevents them from discussing issues
of paramount importance to them because, from a cultural perspective,
such discussions are considered taboo. The lesbian or bisexual woman
cannot hope to find solace here.
For women in
general, there are few acceptable places in society for them to
fill. One space sanctioned by men is the church where men feel that
women will be protected in loco parentis. The conservative wing
of the women's movement is, therefore, also heavily influenced
by fundamentalist Christian thinking which finds no room for the
inclusion of lesbians.
As a major strategy
for the recognition of women's rights, the women's movement
has adopted the majoritarian argument that women form over 50% of
the population. In a heavily heterosexualised culture, lesbians
are too small a minority to consider important and, in fact, sexual
difference may even be perceived as a threat since many organisations
fear to associate with those unpopular both with government and
the Christian church. This is very different from the HIV and AIDS
movement where homosexual men have gained greater acceptance through
the acknowledgement that men have sex with men.
It is generally
agreed that lesbians are at least risk of contracting HIV if they
remain within exclusively lesbian relationships. However, because
of gross generalisations within the HIV and AIDS movement relating
to lesbian sexual behaviours, African lesbians are placed on the
lowest rung when it comes to risks associated with acquiring or
transmitting the HIV virus. For lesbian women who are exclusively
WSW, this is undoubtedly true, but most women in Africa do not enjoy
that luxury of choice and certainly most who do want children do
not have access to expensive technologies for artificial insemination.
In Zimbabwe, where women do not enjoy control over their bodies
or their sexuality and are forced into marriages and into having
children, lesbians are put at the same high risk of contracting
HIV as their heterosexual counterparts. Not only is this threat
to their health entirely unnecessary, every sexual act performed
upon them can be interpreted as rape. So, although great strides
have been made by international HIV/AIDS service organizations through
the adoption of the apolitical term MSM that includes non-gay-identified
men and avoids politicised labels, lesbian women remain excluded
in both heterosexual and homosexual interventions.
Sex between
men is criminalized in Zimbabwe, no law exists here which prohibits
sexual relations between women: but, by the same token, protection
of the rights of women to bodily integrity and ownership of their
own sexuality is minimal. This means that, although richer lesbian
women may be in a better position to buy their freedoms and independence,
those who are poorer are still required to subjugate themselves
to the control of men and poorer lesbian women, who tend to be less
aware of their rights and whose position depends on the sanction
of men, have fewer choices still.
A woman is not
thought of as owning a sexuality independent of the needs of men
and the idea of sexual expression not involving penetration is entirely
alien to the machismo mentality. For these reasons and others related
to the general invisibility of lesbian and bisexual women in public
spaces, the majority of Zimbabweans believe that it is illogical
for lesbians to exist in African cultures. Those who profess to
be lesbian are simply not believed. Women who claim to be independent
of men, even for sex, arouse intense anger in those men with deep-seated
insecurities about sexual rejection and the need to control. In
more traditionally conservative circles, homosexuality may be thought
of in terms of illness brought on by demon possession. The cure
for a man is exorcism but often the cure for a woman is to subject
her to enforced sexual relations with a man.
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