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Nigeria's
immorality is about hypocrisy, not miniskirts
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Guardian (UK)
April 02, 2008
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2008/apr/02/gender.equality
A bill that seeks to
stop women dressing indecently shows how warped our notions of culture
have become.
My friend Funmi Iyanda
hosts a talk show on Nigerian TV in which she interviews state governors,
actors and pastors. Her social consciousness is crusading without
being self-righteous, her journalism intelligent and honest, her
mind deeply kind. One day last December, on her way back from Lagos,
she was stopped by policemen. They pointed at her knee-length dress
and called her a prostitute, a harlot, a useless woman. They told
her she was immoral, that women like her were the reason Nigeria
was in such a bad state. Other women have no doubt experienced similar
harassment, but things will become worse, horrendously so, if the
senate passes a bill that would criminalise "indecent"
dressing: necklines must be two inches or less from the shoulders,
and the waist of a female over 14 must not be visible. It would
be hilarious if it weren't so dangerous.
When I told a male friend
who lives in Lagos that this bill is an attack on women, he said
it was not about women because the senator who sponsored the bill
is a woman. Very facile reasoning, I thought. Gay people have supported
institutionalized homophobia. Black police officers in the US have
carried out anti-black racial profiling. I know men and women who
don't accept any oppression of women. I know men and women who do.
That the senator is a woman does not make the bill any less targeted
at women. As Reuben Abati wrote in the Nigerian Guardian: "Men
are quick to complain about how they are exposed to sexual intimidation
from women. They do not talk about indecent dressing among men."
As always, gender will
be complicated by class: women who do not have cars, who have to
hitch up their skirts to climb on okadas (motorbike taxis), who
do not know a Big Man or Big Woman to call for help, who will be
vulnerable to rape at police stations - these will be disproportionately
harassed.
Many Nigerians have pointed
out how silly the bill is when we have serious problems with power,
health, education, roads, water. Still, to offer these alternatives
is to give the bill a legitimacy of sorts. If we solved these serious
problems, would it then be acceptable to punish a woman in a putative
democracy who chooses to wear a miniskirt?
This bill is, in a larger
sense, about societies for whom women are safe scapegoats, and Nigeria
is only one example. The country is immoral, and we must legislate
morality by imprisoning women in miniskirts. (Most Nigerians use
"immoral" to mean sexual. They rarely use the word to
refer to real immorality: institutional corruption.)
Even challengers of the
bill have mostly agreed that it might be a good thing to regulate
immoral dressing, but best to leave it to private organisations.
This is the populist way to reason in a country where a majority
of people choose to be rigidly conservative when it is convenient.
(But is dressing ever really an issue of morality?)
I was once asked to leave
my church in Nsukka because my blouse had short sleeves (I refused);
apparently my bare arms would tempt the otherwise pious men. To
accept that dressing is a moral issue is to accept this: a woman
must not tempt a man. We focus on Adam eating the apple because
Eve gave it to him. We don't focus on Adam's responsibility, on
why he did not say no. This Judaeo-Christian-Islamic notion of controlling
the female temptress so as to save the helpless male dehumanizes
women and insults the dignity of men since it assumes that men are
incapable of restraint at the sight of a woman's flesh. Or incapable
of simply looking away.
"Culture" is
the other justification. We must preserve our culture, and miniskirts
aren't our culture. Rape and incest and sexual abuse of children
are not our culture, even though they happen all the time. There
are accounts of rape all over Nigeria, especially in urban areas,
yet a collective silence reigns. This bill is particularly dangerous
because it increases the likelihood of women being blamed for rape:
if she hadn't worn that blouse, she would not have been raped.
Perhaps it is time to
debate culture. The common story is that in "real" African
culture, before it was tainted by the west, gender roles were rigid
and women were contentedly oppressed. There are men and women who,
while holding their imported cellphones and driving their imported
cars, say that women should conform to certain gender roles so as
to preserve our "real" culture. The historical truth is
that most of these reductive gender ideas came from Victorian England.
But assuming that we
agree that there is such a thing as a "pure" culture and
that we would like to return to it, then we would go back to pre-colonial
west Africa when gender roles were fluid, when there was little
gender differentiation in Yorubaland, and when Igbo women could
marry women. The culture-preserving senator would be surprised if
she were transported back to her home in 1800. Never mind low-cut
blouses. The women trading in the markets would be bare-breasted.
There has always been
a strange dissonance between the public and the private in Nigeria.
We say what we think we should in public. This bill has many supporters
who must surely know that the moral decadence in our society is
not because women are wearing miniskirts but because men and women
are stealing and publicly thanking God after they have stolen; because
the ability to speak honestly is compromised by a literal and figurative
hunger; because we have embraced and codified the culture of hypocrisy.
And it is this culture of hypocrisy that the bill will preserve.
·*Chimamanda
Ngozi Adichie is the author of Half of a Yellow Sun, which won last
year's Orange prize for fiction; next Monday she will be discussing
her work with the writer Jackie Kay at the Bloomsbury Theatre in
London
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