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Domestic
Violence Bill is just the beginning
Betty
Makoni
May 28, 2006
Dear Editor
and Ken Mufuka
Africa is known
to have fought against many injustices in the pre colonial, colonial
and post colonial era but the struggle for women and men to disband
and dismantle patriarchy which for years has justified wife battering,
rape, forced marriages of girls, polygamy and domestic violence
is but one outstanding struggle in Africa. The so many arguments
advanced by Ken Mafuka as
to why the Domestic Violence Bill should not be enacted is a
clear testimony that he is still bound by beliefs, practices, myths
and attitudes of patriarchy. Patriarchy does not have a space for
women whether they are black or white. When a woman speaks out or
attempts to make a breakthrough into a male dominated field she
is stereotyped, harassed, jeered at, beaten up and replaced with
an African morally correct woman with a subdued voice.
Ken Mufuka is
a defender, author and architect of patriarchy. Rape of young girls
is happening daily with the youngest rape victim in Zimbabwe aged
3 days. Women are battered, sexually enslaved, maimed and sometimes
left for dead, economically abused, murdered and in Buhera four
men murdered a woman because she could not breast feed. Violation
of women’s rights is now the order of the day and 60% of new infections
are with married women in Zimbabwe. If Ken Mufuka is in the US he
may be out of touch with the reality on the ground and as such editors
of Fingaz should consult widely on facts and figures on Domestic
Violence before downplaying ongoing efforts to have the Bill enacted
into law.
Zimbabwe may
be the only country without a specific act of parliament to protect
children ,women and men in the home from domestic violence. I felt
really depressed last week at a regional workshop in South Africa
to learn most of the neighbouring countries enacted the Domestic
Violence Bill and all their women, children and men are living
harmoniously in the homes. I would not like to legitimise Ken Mufuka
and other defenders of patriarchy by arguing on merits and demerits
of the Domestic Violence Bill. As feminists, gender activists, defenders
of women’s rights or whatever names people choose to give us we
will continue to fight for women’s rights because they are human
rights.
For Fingaz,
maybe this is time to reflect on whether you want your paper to
be a battle field for patriarchy between women rights activists
and Ken Mufuka. We need your paper to demonstrate democratic principles
by ensuring that you are not used to perpetuate patriarchy which
is the worst dictatorship for women in living memory. Last week
I followed Mavis Makuni’s analysis of the Zuma rape case and I felt
the paper has a space for women. Honestly, you need 52% of the population
who are women in this country to feel supported in their tortuous
journey to freedom.
By the way I
am "Muzvare" meaning Princess, from Makoni and Chataurwa
na Mambokadzi hachipikiswi, Ken. Domestic Violence Bill is just
but one of the million demands from women in line with the Millennium
Development Goals. The Domestic Violence Bill is only the beginning
as all marriage laws that allow men to have many wives and forbid
women to do the same are in the pipeline.
*Muzware
Betty Makoni is Chairperson for the Women's
Coalition of Zimbabwe
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