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Vagina Warriors: An Emerging Paradigm, An Emerging Species
Eve Ensler, Amnesty International Ireland
May 2004

http://www.amnesty.ie/content/view/full/2943/

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Eve Ensler, the Director/Founder of V-Day, celebrates vagina warriors. She urges the vagina warrior in all of us to go forth and multiply until the senseless violence against women stops.

I have sat with women in crowded factories in Juarez, in crumbling shelters in the back streets of Cairo, Egypt, in makeshift centres for teenage girls and women in Jerusalem, Johannesburg, Pine Ridge and Watts, in mansions in Hollywood, in burnt-out backyards in Kosova and Kabul, in a moving van after midnight with girls trafficked for sex in Paris.

Sometimes these meetings went on for hours; in the case of the 17-yearold Bulgarian sex slave, we had 35 minutes before her pimp came looking for her. I have heard the staggering stories of violence - war rapes, gang rapes, date rapes, licensed rapes, family rapes.

I have seen first-hand the scars of brutality - black eyes, cigarette - hole burns in arms and legs, a melted face, bruises and broken bones. I have witnessed women living without what is fundamental - sky, sun, a roof, food, and parents, a clitoris, and freedom. I have been there when skulls washed up on riverbanks and naked mutilated female bodies we rediscovered in ditches. I have seen the worst. The worst lives in my body. But in each and every case I was escorted, transformed, and transported by a guide, a visionary, an activist, an outrageous fighter and dreamer. I have come to know these women (and sometimes men) as Vagina Warriors.

It was Zoya who first took me to the muddy Afghan camps in Pakistan; Rada who translated the stories of women refugees as we travelled through war-torn Bosnia; Megan who led pro - vagina cheers on a freezing cold campus in Michigan; Igo who made jokes about land mines as we sped in her jeep through the postwar roads outside Pristina, Kosova ; Esther who took me to the graves marked with pink crosses in Juarez, Mexico; Agnes who walked me up the path with dancing and singing Masai girls dressed in red, celebrating the opening of the first V-Day Safe House for girls fleeing female genital mutilation (FGM).

At first I thought this was just a rare group of individuals, specific women who had been violated or witnessed so much suffering they had no choice but to act. But after five years of travelling, 40 countries later a pattern has emerged, an evolving species. Vagina Warriors are everywhere. In a time of escalating and explosive violence on the planet , these Warriors are fostering a new paradigm.

Although Vagina Warriors are highly original, they possess some genera l defining characteristics : " They are fierce, obsessed, can't be stopped, driven. They are no longer beholden to social custom s or inhibited by taboos. They are not afraid to be alone, not afraid to be ridiculed or attacked. They are often willing to face anything for the safety and freedom of others. They love to dance. They are directed by vision, not ruled by ideology. They are citizens of the world. They cherish humanity over nationhood. They have a wicked sense of humour."

A Palestinian activist told jokes to an Israeli soldier who pointed a machine gun at her as she tried to pass the checkpoints. She literally disarmed him with her humour.

Vagina Warriors know that compassion is the deepest form of memory. They know that punishment does not make abusive people behave better. They know that it is more important to provide a space where the best can emerge rather than "teaching people a lesson". I met an extraordinary activist in San Francisco, a former prostitute who had been abused as a child. Working with the correctional system, she devised a therapeutic workshop where convicted pimps and johns could confront their loneliness, insecurity and sorrow. Vagina Warriors are done being victims. They know no one is coming to rescue them. They would not want to be rescued.

They have experienced their rage , depression, des i re for revenge and they have transformed them through grieving and service. They have confronted the depth of their darkness. They live in their bodies.

They are community makers. They bring everyone in.

Vagina Warriors have a keen ability to live with ambiguity. They can hold two existing, opposite thoughts at the same time. I first recognised this quality during the Bosnian war. I was interviewing a Muslim woman activist in a refugee camp whose husband had been decapitated by a Serb. I as ked her if she hated Serbs. She looked at me as if I were crazy. "No, no, I do not hate Serbs," she said, "If I were to hate Serbs, then the Serbs would have won."

Vagina Warriors know that the process of healing from violence is long and happens in stages. They give w h at they need the most, and by giving this they heal and activate the wounded part inside.

Many Vagina Warriors work primarily on a grassroots level. Because what is done to women is often done in isolation and remains unreported, Vagina Warriors work to make the invisible seen. Mary in Chicago fights for the rights of Women of Colour so that they are not disregarded or abused; Nighat risked stoning and public shaming in Pakistan by producing "The Vagina Monologues" in Islamabad so that the stories and passions of women would not go unheard; Esther insists that the hundreds of disappeared girls in Juarez are honoured and not forgotten.

For native people, a warrior is one whose basic responsibility is to protect and preserve life. The struggle to end violence on this planet is a battle. Emotional, intellectual, spiritual and physical. It requires every bit of our strength, our courage, and our fierceness. It means speaking out when everyone says be quiet. It means going the distance to hold perpetrators accountable for their actions. It means honouring the truth even if it means losing family, country, and friends. It means developing the spiritual muscle to enter and survive the grief that violence brings and, in that dangerous space of stunned unknowing, inviting the deeper wisdom.

Like Vaginas, Warriors are central to human existence, but they still remain largely unvalued and unseen. This year V- Day celebrates Vagina Warriors around the world, and by doing so we acknowledge these women and men and their work. In every community there are humble activists working every day, beat by beat to undo suffering. They sit by hospital beds, pass new laws, chant taboo words, write boring proposals, beg for money, demonstrate and hold vigils in the streets. They are our mothers, our daughters, our sisters, our aunts, our grandmothers, and our best friends. Every woman has a warrior inside waiting to be born. In order to guarantee a world without violence, in a time of danger and escalating madness, we urge them to come out.

CELEBRATE VAGINA WARRIORS. LET THEM BE HONOURED AND SEEN. LET MORE BE BORN.

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