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Masculinity and leadership in Shimmer Chinodya's Strife:
A Book Café discussion
Amanda
Atwood, Kubatana.net
September 01, 2008
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"Who or
what is a man? What does a man do and what are the responsibilities
of a man? And how can men become more effective leaders during Zimbabwe's
moments of strife."
These are the
questions with which Ezra Chitando, Professor of Religious Studies
at the University of Zimbabwe, opened his presentation at Harare's
Book Café on Thursday 21 August. The subject of the evening
was Shimmer Chinodya's novel Strife, published by
Weaver Press last year.
Chitando observed:
"We know the social construction of masculinity: Men are portrayed
as strong, women are weak. Men are aggressive, women are nurturing.
Men are tough, women are soft. But when one reads the book Strife,
one asks the question: Do men live up to the social construction
of masculinity? Do men actually succeed in delivering?"
This introduction
opened the evening to a discussion of masculinities as they are
depicted in the novel Strife specifically, as well as in
every day life at a family, community and national level. Where
the male characters of Strife fall short, argued Chitando,
so might one observe other male leaders in society falling short.
"Zimbabwe's collective failure of leadership is perhaps
an outworking of exhausted patriarchy," he said. "Men
have not been effective leaders - of families, extended families
or of nations." Listen
Drawing parallels
between Ndungu, the main character in Strife, and what
he called "toxic masculinities" more generally, Chitando
contended that the character flaws of the novel's protagonist
reflect the flaws of patriarchy, such as excessive ambition, emotional
aloofness, extreme paranoia and authoritarianism. As Chitando put
it, "patriarchy thrives on competition, ownership, control
and success." But this drive to dominate also sets the built-in
limits of patriarchy.
Drawing on Chinodya's
writing and the lessons of Strife, Chitando made several
recommendations for how to "reinvigorate the structures of
leadership" and promote a more positive masculinity including:
- Accept the
voice and leadership of women.
- Analyse more
critically the interface between modernity and tradition.
- Radically
transform masculinities.
- Accept that
sometimes you'll be second best.
Legal practitioner
Nokuthula Moyo also presented her thoughts, and agreed that many
of the male characters in Strife are "typical of
the men in our society."
Moyo raised
issues such as the characters' inconsistencies in their belief
system, and the novel's prevailing tensions between Christianity
and African traditional beliefs. Moyo stressed the importance of
having something to believe in: "regardless of whether it
is traditional or modern, many of us find that we need a faith and
a firm grounding. We need something to believe in."
Moyo looked
at the ways in which the men in Strife played their roles
as sons, brothers, friends, workers, husbands and fathers, and described
the ways in which they were "typical of so many in society."
For example, the man who knows what is best - for himself,
for his brothers and sisters, for his wife. Regardless of the sensible
contributions of others, this man does not listen.
Moyo went on
to ask "how do our men reshape themselves?" She argued
that "we need to change our concept of masculinity. We need
to get our men to somehow understand that perfect leadership requires
sensitivity, listening to others."
To Moyo, a part
of this transformation required finding a belief system -
any belief system - and committing to it. She observed the
ways in which modern society has allowed itself to be "Westernised
beyond religion," and she questioned the effectiveness of
that. Without a belief system, Moyo contended, when we face difficulty,
we "seem to fall into a bottomless pit." That is why,
she said, "we owe it to ourselves to examine ourselves and
where we came from, where we are going, what we believe, and what
moral values we want to hold on to." Listen
In closing,
Moyo noted "if a man is not capable of being a good father,
a good son, and a good husband, he is not capable of leading a nation."
In the discussion
after these two presentations, many of the contributions focused
on the points raised by both speakers about the need to transform
masculinities. Participants asked how easy is it, really, to make
this transformation to something more positive, what could this
new masculinity look like, and how can society get there, particularly
given the many social and economic challenges currently facing Zimbabweans.
How, asked one participant, "do we deal with the frustrations
of manhood, particularly given Zimbabwe's current economic
difficulties? How do we deal with a man who is failing to be a breadwinner
and provide for his family? And how are men taking these frustrations
out on the family, in community, and even politically." Participants
also discussed the challenges faced when both men and women accept
negative male behaviour such as violence as the norm - and judge
men as "unmasculine" if they do not beat their wives.
Listen
Chitando responded
that, in his work with the World Council of Churches, in the context
of HIV/AIDS, they look at "redemptive masculinities"
as a way to move men away from "the toxic and dangerous masculinities
that push men to excel, compete, own, possess, and to regard predatory
sexual experiences as normative." Redemptive masculinities
included things like teaching men that "women are equal partners,
that men do not have the right and privilege to have multiple sexual
partners, that men can look after people living with HIV and AIDS,"
he said.
Chitando emphasized
the need to "catch them young" - to work with
school aged boys, before they have taken on too much of society's
toxic masculinity. But a participant questioned this, observing
that "the moment these boys start to display these positive
masculinities, they are labelled by society, and pressurized. They
then typically go back to the toxic masculinities and even become
more dangerous to the same society."
Chitando held
that the roots of toxic masculinity are found both in Christianity
and modernity, and in traditional African culture. Thus, he argued,
"we need to go back to the tradition and to the culture and
look for redemptive windows of opportunity and the positive masculine
traits within African culture." Similarly, he said, we need
to go back to Christianity and retrieve the positive masculinities
from that.
Audio File
- Ezra
Chitando
Summary:
Language: English
Duration: 1min 40sec
Date: August 21, 2008
File Type: MP3
Size: 1.53MB
- Nokuthula
Moyo
Summary:
Language: English
Duration: 1min
Date: August 21, 2008
File Type: MP3
Size: 953KB
- Discussion
Summary:
Language: English
Duration: 1min 14sec
Date: August 21, 2008
File Type: MP3
Size: 1.13MB
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